September 16, 2008

• We truly do learn all we need to about socialization in Kindergarten. If certain kids pick on us, we stop playing with them or tell them to leave us alone. Once they don’t have someone to pick on, what will they do? Find someone else or stop doing it and wish that the person they picked on in the first place hadn’t left them to think about it all. Something like that? Maybe?

  When I start to feel as though my presence isn’t appreciated in social groups, I do tend to back away and do other things alone or with other people. I also stop participating if I am present; I’m awesome at the silent treatment. All of this… I’m certain I learned in Kindergarten or very early on in my younger years when I had a few bullies (girls who I was later much taller and prettier than, let’s be honest) pick on me simply because I was there, not because I was a threat of any sort. They were too focused on trying to piss me off because they couldn’t handle who they were.

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